Remi Tinubu Urges Parents to Teach Girls Modesty, Mentorship
Nigeria’s First Lady, Oluremi Tinubu, has called on parents and women across the country to instill values of modesty, discipline and mentorship in young girls, stressing that true beauty goes beyond physical appearance.
Speaking in Abuja on Thursday during an interfaith gathering where she hosted Muslim and Christian women for an Iftar and Lent breakfast, the First Lady encouraged women to take deliberate steps to mentor girls, particularly those from disadvantaged backgrounds.
She urged women to support young girls through guidance, education and, where possible, scholarships, noting that such efforts could help shape their future and strengthen society.
“I challenge you to have a mentee… pour into the life of a young girl from an indigent background. Help them, even if it is through a scholarship, encourage them and teach them good virtues,” she said.
Mrs Tinubu also emphasised the importance of teaching young girls self-worth and modesty in dressing, noting that exposing the body should not be mistaken for beauty.
“Teach them how to dress well. Being naked is not beauty. Beauty comes from within,” she said, adding that parents should guide their children to embrace dignity and positive values.
Her remarks come amid growing public conversations in Nigeria about what some observers describe as indecent dressing among young women.
The issue has also drawn comments from public figures, including Nigerian filmmaker Biodun Stephen, who previously cautioned women against stepping out without proper undergarments, warning that such habits could expose them to embarrassing situations.
Mrs Tinubu reiterated the need for stronger family and community guidance, stressing that mentoring and value-based upbringing remain essential to raising responsible and confident young women.